I've always been drawn to the classic elegance of pearls. There's something so timeless and romantic about them. So, when I started dreaming about my engagement ring, a pearl and diamond halo design was at the top of my list! But, before I got too carried away, I decided to do some research. What I found out surprised me and ultimately changed my mind about having a pearl as the center stone for everyday wear.
I pictured myself wearing this beautiful pearl ring every day, showcasing its soft luster and unique charm. However, as I started looking into the properties of pearls, I discovered a potential problem: their delicate nature. I learned that pearls are relatively soft and can be easily scratched or damaged. The thought of my precious engagement ring losing its luster over time was disheartening. I wanted something that could withstand daily wear and tear without requiring constant maintenance or replacement.
I discovered that many jewelers advise against pearl rings for everyday wear due to their softness. They are much more susceptible to damage than gemstones like diamonds, sapphires, or rubies. The placement of pearls in rings, often raised and exposed, makes them even more vulnerable to knocks and scratches.
One thing I learned is that if you choose a pearl ring, you should be prepared to replace the pearl periodically. The oils from your skin, exposure to chemicals (even mild ones like soap), and everyday bumps can all take a toll. I even heard stories of people needing to replace their pearl center stone multiple times! While the beauty of a pearl is undeniable, its fragility became a major concern for me.
Since I wanted an engagement ring that could withstand daily wear, I started exploring alternative gemstones. I learned that sapphires, rubies, and spinels are all much more durable than pearls. They can handle everyday wear and tear without easily scratching or losing their shine. The vibrant colors of these gemstones also appealed to me. A sapphire, for example, can offer a stunning blue hue, while a ruby provides a rich, fiery red.
While I considered other options, I also realized that I could still incorporate pearls into my jewelry collection in other ways. For example, I've been exploring different necklace options. I recently purchased a 5pcs Round Snake Chain Necklace from Sumsfashion. The stainless steel construction means it will last a long time. I love wearing it with pearl pendants for special occasions. It allows me to enjoy the beauty of pearls without the daily wear concerns of a ring.
I have found that this stainless steel chain chokers are perfect for pairing with so many pieces that I already own, so pearls can still be a part of my everyday look.
If you're still set on a pearl ring, here are some tips to help protect it: